Feminism exists because we are still not equal

I am a feminist and have been since I was a child, by default. I questioned everything that I found unfair in terms of how I was treated, especially compared to boys.

Being unfairly treated due to my gender, damaged my self-esteem and for the longest time, I wished I could be a boy and receive fair treatment and the same freedoms.

I remember telling a relative that I wanted to be a doctor, only to be told that if I did, I would be too old to get married and no man would want me.

Some of my school teachers told me I was too dark-skinned, which was equated with being ugly in their minds, and they asked me to stay away from the sun. I was also taught to be shameful of my body as a woman.

It was very lonely not having anyone to discuss these topics with, and I never met anyone with a similar mindset as a child and teenager. I have now grown to love my beautiful skin color and my body.

I look up to Zainah Anwar, a Malaysian female activist. As a teenager, I loved reading her articles and held them close to my heart. They gave me a glimpse of hope that there were other people out there who think like me too.

I have always believed that men and women are equal and that they deserve equal rights, opportunities, and respect – at home, at work, and in their communities. Having the first female, African American, South Asian Vice President in America will help further this cause and inspire many females and young girls. It’s about time!