As an Aspie, I thrive on organizing and categorizing my life for my sanity. However, I notice that many humans tend to apply this to other humans as well, which is basically making preconceived judgments of others. This is stereotyping.
Humans are different individuals, each and every one of them. Who says that a heavy metal fan can't also enjoy gardening and watching romantic films? Who says that a ballerina shouldn't enjoy wearing boy's clothes and have short hair?
I think it is important to celebrate the individual for who they truly are. For example, although I am a singer-songwriter, I spend most of my time in silence. Although I am a creative person, I lean towards have a more logical and pragmatic way of thinking and mostly read non-fiction.
“I believe there is no box - we should be who we uniquely are. We are so much more than the boxes society tells us we “should” fit into.”
I believe that the more free we are to be our true selves, the less judgmental and stereotyped we will be towards others in being their true selves. Because we are able to be our true selves.
The happier and more content we are, the less jealous we are of others. It kind of works both ways.
So loving ourselves actually helps others love themselves too.
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